Glaucoma Eye Disease
- By Deborah Smith
- Published 08/6/2008
- Eye Care
- Unrated
Among
all the non-verbal communication signals, eye body language is probably the
most mesmerizing. They say the eyes are “the windows to the soul.” I agree,
since your appealing eyes much reveal your inner thoughts and feelings. Even
more astonishing is the fact that you can use eye body language to build trust
and make people similar to you. Following are some points:
Making eye contact is the key.
Around
70% of the time you must make eye contact if you want to convey your sincerity
and respect. Avoiding eye contact instinctively gives the notion of dishonesty,
shyness, anxiety, or humiliation.
If
you incessantly avoid making eye contact, you might be professed as someone who
is insecure, unreliable or even deceitful. Although that may not be the case,
but who fails to make proper eye contact that’s the normal impression, people
go with.
If
you are too modest or scared to make eye contact, just have a glimpse at the
bridge of the nose or the portion between their eyes, and they’ll think that
you’re looking at them.
Be aware of your eye body language.
Some
people instinctively send body language signals that affront other people, so
be perceptive to your eye actions. Rolling your eyes indicates irritation, so
avoid doing that.
Your
eyes glow if you’re in a pleasant or cheerful condition, and they look dull
when you’re lonely or dejected. It might be a good idea to rearrange your
rendezvous with your desired person, if you’re facing any kind of problems or
feeling dull and gloomy.
Reveal your eyes.
Try
to avoid wearing
sunglasses, because covering up them might give the intuition that you’re
hiding something. Since eyes are very expressive, not allowing people to see
your eyes implies that you don’t want them to know how you feel or think. It
also makes the other party feel quite uncomfortable because they don’t know if
you’re gazing at them or not.
Know what people’s eye body language
means.
How
to know whether people are paying attention to you? Nodding their heads,
smiling, and/or leaning closer helps to establish eye contact and you’ll come
to know by that.
Raising
their eyebrows, might indicate or implies something, end the conversation, or
might have even disagreed with something you’ve said.
It
may be a good idea to keep away from the people who deliberately elude your eyes
and show no intention of giving you a glance, probably are not interested in
talking with you.
Don’t look if they don’t like to be
looked at.
Be
aware of people who might get offended by looking at them. Some people avoid eye contact
because of extreme shyness; so don’t add to their discomfort by staring at
them.
People
of varied cultures may consider eye contact as a negative or disrespect act, so
be sensitive when you’re meeting people and adjust accordingly to their
beliefs.
Apart
from reading eye body language, be smart enough to check other nonverbal signs
so that you’ll have a more accurate assessment of what they’re thinking or
feeling.

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