Not every sign of cheating is obvious. There are some signs that are not-so-obvious. These signs can be hard to catch, but in some cases are the only signals a cheating mate may give that something is wrong. You have to be able to pick up on these not-so-obvious signs so if there is something going on you can catch it.

Lying

It can be difficult to catch a person in a lie. It takes work on your part to spot a lie. Some people are so good at lying that catching them is hard. You just have to take it upon yourself to learn how to recognize a lie coming from your mate.

It helps to really know your spouse. Watch for things that seem out of the ordinary when they are talking. Usually when lying a person will give off hints and while they may not be obvious, when you know someone well enough, you will notice them.

Also do some research into lying and how to spot a liar. This can help you learn tell tale signs and common ways to spot a liar.

Excuses

Excuses are very beneficial to a cheating mate. Any time they are confronted and questioned about their actions they will have a good excuse. They have probably thought about how they would explain, so they are good at telling you a bold faced lie without any sign they are lying.

You have to learn how to combat excuses. Mainly this is done through hard core proof. You have to be able to counter any excuses with more evidence and questions. If you do not give up they eventually will.

Why They Are Not Obvious

Lies and excuses are not so obvious signs of cheating because they differ from person to person. It is a matter of knowing your mate and your relationship. You are really the only one that can spot a lie or tell if something is a made up distraction from the truth.

Lies and excuses fuel the affair and you have to get past them in order to get to the truth. It is your only line of defense. So it is up to you to learn how to get rid of lies and excuses so you can uncover your mates cheating ways.

Besides not-so-obvious signs of cheating there are plenty of more obvious signs that you should be on the look out for, too.